It all began with a simple, unexpected message (a link). I often tease Emelda about whether it was truly a mistake (I knew it was a mistake), but that message transformed everything for us.
*Setting the Scene*
We had known of each other through mutual friends and family, always observing from a distance without ever truly connecting. Then, one day, Emelda's message appeared on my screen (a link). She insists it was a slip of the finger, but I like to think it was fate nudging us together.
*The Connection*
After that initial message, our conversations blossomedāstarting off as brief exchanges but quickly evolving into hours of delightful talks. Our chats turned into virtual dates, each one revealing more of the qualities we cherished in one another. Emeldaās deep faith and love for God served as a guiding light, her kindness and sense of purpose deepening my admiration. I found her dedication to God and her family inspiring, and I realized early on that her values were the very qualities I wanted in my life.
For her part, Emelda often tells me that my humor, thoughtfulness, and commitment to our relationship made her believe in our future together even more.
*A Life-Changing Proposal*
Before long, I knew Emelda was the one I wanted by my side forever. On a day etched in our memories, I asked her to be my partner for life. Her smile and enthusiastic "yes" made all the moments leading up to that instant worthwhile.
*Our Journey Forward*
Since that message "meant for someone else," Emelda and I have crafted a beautiful story filled with love, faith, laughter, and countless cherished memories. We are grateful every day for that unexpected message, which marked the beginning of the most wonderful chapter in our lives. As I often tell her, āGod bless the broken road that led you to me.ā
A Chance Encounter
What began as a simple mistakeāa devotional prayer link sent to the wrong personāturned out to be the catalyst for an incredible journey. Little did I know, that single click would change everything for both of us.
Our Shared Connections
Onyema had known me through my sisters, Jillian and Evelyn, who were friends with him since their university days. Despite the years and our mutual connections, I had never met himāeven when he was just a +1 at my birthday party over a decade ago. Interestingly, we had been Facebook friends all that time, but there had been no real interaction between us. I even remember him wishing me well on my birthday in February 2013, and I didnāt respondš.
Building a Connection
After that unexpected message, we began to chat. At first, I would sometimes ignore his messages, but he never stopped reaching out. He would often apologize for bothering me, showing such patience and kindness that I couldn't help but admire him. Eventually, our conversations blossomed into hours of engaging discussions, revealing the qualities we both cherished. I found myself inspired by Onyemaās wit, thoughtfulness, and commitment to his faith. His genuine care for others made me feel more connected to him every day.
For Onyema, my love for God and my values resonated deeply, encouraging him to believe in our budding relationship.
*The Proposal
It didnāt take long for me to realize that Onyema was the person I wanted to spend my life with. I can still picture the day he asked me to be his wife. His nervous excitement was palpable, and when I said yes, it felt as if all our shared moments had led up to that perfect instant.
Our Beautiful Journey
Since that day, when I mistakenly sent a prayer link to Onyema, we have been weaving a beautiful story filled with love, faith, and countless cherished memories. Everyday, I thank God for that seemingly small error that opened the door to the most wonderful chapter of my life as his wife-to-be and the mother of his children- a title he lovingly whispers in my ear.